It's common for [[Parts]] of us to want to speed up the healing process. We can tell that we have one of these parts if we notice we have agenda around healing: [[If you have an agenda, you're blended with a part]]. Parts may need time to see whether they can actually trust [[Self]] and whether it's actually safe to relax. See: [[You can titrate experiences for parts]]. And parts likely have genuine concerns about what would happen if they were to relax or let go of their conditioning: [[Protectors have good reasons for their roles and beliefs, even when they're extreme, irrational, and wrong]].