To be Self-led is to be led by your true [[Self]] rather than [[Parts]]. This doesn't mean that you've gotten rid of parts, but you've helped them release their [[Burdens]] and gain their trust so that they feel it's safe to let [[Self]] take the lead: [[To become Self-led, parts need to learn to trust Self]]. [[Parts are valuable]], so you can still call upon them as needed and desired.
See also: [[Decision making is easier when you're Self-led]]