What is can change after the fact. But what is true now, and what was true of the past, cannot be changed no matter how much [[Parts]] of us may resist what is and believe that what is should have been different: [[Suffering is resistance to what is]] and [[Suffering is the belief that something should be different]]. [[Life shouldn't be different]] because it can't be. But if there are problems with what is, we ought to do what we can to solve them: [[Solving problems is fun and useful]]. However we should know that [[There are no problems to solve]] that will give us what we ultimately seek. Because [[You are what you seek]].